I met a friend at a birthday dinner i attended, i casually asked about her family and supposed boyfriend. She replied with a sigh ,onyinye that boy is a liar,he just lied to me to sleep with me. He actually has a girl friend but at that time they were having issues and he needed a distraction. He told me he was single and showed an amount of seriousness and commitment to the relationship and i fell for his lies . I found out later and my heart is broken in pieces,especially when i confronted him and he couldnt deny it ,she replied .
It took a post i saw on instagram to give me the epiphany i needed to write this piece . My question is this,Dear men are we still in that Era of lies ? Are we still in the Era where you try to piece your fabricated lies from the pit of hell just to get a woman in so doing you hurt her? Look around you this is 2016 ,i find it very annoying that men still feel the need to lie to get their way with women.
This is 2016 and you will be suprised at how open minded women are to certain things. No matter how weird or deranged your intentions are ,i feel that if everyone would just be straightfoward with their intentions then there will be less hurt in the world . If sex is all you want please man-up and admit it,you would be suprised to find women who are just looking for Sex. If you are just looking for temporary company while your patner is away, please have the integrity to admit it . You will be shocked to discover how most girls too are only looking for a temporary solution, a rite of passage before they settle down. If you are looking for a serious relationship,please state it from the onset and your actions should depict what you want. My point is whatever you want be straightfoward about it . Yes you might loose some women you want by making open your intentions,because they might not agree with your terms . If miss vivian doesnt agree with your views , i am sure miss Bisola or Eniola would agree to your terms.
These days the term side -chick has come to stay .Which in the Nigerian terms means a woman knowing you are in a relationship with another girl but agreeing to date you without interfering in your on going relationship.
My question ...why are some guys still leaving in the 80's ,and basking in the demented Euphoria leaving broken hearts as you move .
In this piece i am not imploring you to stop your wicked and philandering activities ..please by all means continue in the task the devil has laid out for you.
All i am saying is please Embrace the new ever evolving changing society .
Add just a little bit of integrity and prestige to your supposed lifestyle . We are tired of the creed from the book of philanderers from the 80's ,please read the new Edition and save stress for everyone .It makes your job and effort you put in lying easier and your sin dignifying.
From a concerned Citizen .
It took a post i saw on instagram to give me the epiphany i needed to write this piece . My question is this,Dear men are we still in that Era of lies ? Are we still in the Era where you try to piece your fabricated lies from the pit of hell just to get a woman in so doing you hurt her? Look around you this is 2016 ,i find it very annoying that men still feel the need to lie to get their way with women.
This is 2016 and you will be suprised at how open minded women are to certain things. No matter how weird or deranged your intentions are ,i feel that if everyone would just be straightfoward with their intentions then there will be less hurt in the world . If sex is all you want please man-up and admit it,you would be suprised to find women who are just looking for Sex. If you are just looking for temporary company while your patner is away, please have the integrity to admit it . You will be shocked to discover how most girls too are only looking for a temporary solution, a rite of passage before they settle down. If you are looking for a serious relationship,please state it from the onset and your actions should depict what you want. My point is whatever you want be straightfoward about it . Yes you might loose some women you want by making open your intentions,because they might not agree with your terms . If miss vivian doesnt agree with your views , i am sure miss Bisola or Eniola would agree to your terms.
These days the term side -chick has come to stay .Which in the Nigerian terms means a woman knowing you are in a relationship with another girl but agreeing to date you without interfering in your on going relationship.
My question ...why are some guys still leaving in the 80's ,and basking in the demented Euphoria leaving broken hearts as you move .
In this piece i am not imploring you to stop your wicked and philandering activities ..please by all means continue in the task the devil has laid out for you.
All i am saying is please Embrace the new ever evolving changing society .
Add just a little bit of integrity and prestige to your supposed lifestyle . We are tired of the creed from the book of philanderers from the 80's ,please read the new Edition and save stress for everyone .It makes your job and effort you put in lying easier and your sin dignifying.
From a concerned Citizen .
Hahahhaha....word my dear👌They should be bold and state their intentions ooo😫
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