Most times when we are abused we think it's only from the opposite sex , but friends abuse friends.
Today am referring to everyone who is directly involved In your life. He or she can be a friend, friendship between two ladies, friendship between a lady and a guy or friendship between two guys . We all have that friend who just calls or talks to you when they need you, or want something from you. Then after using you for the period to soothe their selfish needs they drop you.More like a parasitic relationship other than a symbiotic one.
Most times I write out of experience or stories I have heard,so I am gonna drop this here. I have this friend who for a long time has been in such abusive relationship. Each time she tries to get out, the call comes and she gets sucked back in. God in heaven knows the words he uses on her whenever he calls out of the blue to send her back Into his clutches. No matter the hurt she comes out from, she just keeps going back. I sit and listen to her tears of woe whenever she is hit or abused(mentally and wisely I don't say a word)I just comfort her . Until she finds herself and her true worth as a woman she can never be free.
One day after two long years of turmoil she stood up , tired of the mind games , tired of the sadistic charm, she took a step back and evaluated her life. On a Saturday with shaky hands she picked up her phone and sent a message to him ending whatever bound her to him,he laughed it out thinking It was one of those short breaks. Deep inside her she found herself, after a long period of not talking she heard he was getting getting married, I expected to see grief from her eyes but alas I saw relief. Relief that she was finally free and pity for the intended spouse.For she knew the poor lady would never know half of what she knew.
She saw the pre -wedding photo's recently and said to herself, thank God I am not in this position .Three weeks to his wedding the call comes again, but then he is dead to her. She looks at him and feels pity, feels triumph for she realises she is stronger and in a sick perverse way he also needs her .
But then he is dead to her, dead in the soul and dead in body. She can only wish him happiness in his journey forward with a new prey, with shaky hands she hangs up.( For those that can relate )
Today am referring to everyone who is directly involved In your life. He or she can be a friend, friendship between two ladies, friendship between a lady and a guy or friendship between two guys . We all have that friend who just calls or talks to you when they need you, or want something from you. Then after using you for the period to soothe their selfish needs they drop you.More like a parasitic relationship other than a symbiotic one.
Most times I write out of experience or stories I have heard,so I am gonna drop this here. I have this friend who for a long time has been in such abusive relationship. Each time she tries to get out, the call comes and she gets sucked back in. God in heaven knows the words he uses on her whenever he calls out of the blue to send her back Into his clutches. No matter the hurt she comes out from, she just keeps going back. I sit and listen to her tears of woe whenever she is hit or abused(mentally and wisely I don't say a word)I just comfort her . Until she finds herself and her true worth as a woman she can never be free.
One day after two long years of turmoil she stood up , tired of the mind games , tired of the sadistic charm, she took a step back and evaluated her life. On a Saturday with shaky hands she picked up her phone and sent a message to him ending whatever bound her to him,he laughed it out thinking It was one of those short breaks. Deep inside her she found herself, after a long period of not talking she heard he was getting getting married, I expected to see grief from her eyes but alas I saw relief. Relief that she was finally free and pity for the intended spouse.For she knew the poor lady would never know half of what she knew.
She saw the pre -wedding photo's recently and said to herself, thank God I am not in this position .Three weeks to his wedding the call comes again, but then he is dead to her. She looks at him and feels pity, feels triumph for she realises she is stronger and in a sick perverse way he also needs her .
But then he is dead to her, dead in the soul and dead in body. She can only wish him happiness in his journey forward with a new prey, with shaky hands she hangs up.( For those that can relate )
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