I woke up today to pass rumola road ( it's a major Area in port-harcourt). Lo and behold I saw two well dressed lady squabbling and tearing each other's cloths. My interest was piqued because these ladies looked very well dressed to be seen fighting. My mind went to many areas , could it be that maybe one owed the other money ? Could it be that one wants to kill the other ? Are they both mad ? Or maybe is it the case of an
angry wife beating a incessant home wrecker?
Out of curiosity I drew closer and lo and behold ,people gathered and begged the two of them.The ladies were both single and they crux of their disagreement was a Man. They were fighting and reaching for each other's cloths ..screaming leave my man . "He is my man ,I met him first". Imagine my shock and disgust at the waste of my time and the shame that came over me .
One of the ladies had her blouse torn into shreds and her torso left bare with bite marks on her shoulder . I thought of the so called man they are fighting over ,I wanted to see a picture of him. I tried to imagine what he may look like , He just has to be a mini -God, the lords chosen son,the last man standing,a Greek Adonis,a dangote of our time,even with all these qualities it's still not worth it. With all the men that roam this entire world,what calibre of man would put you girls through this ,that you decide to disgrace the name of your father's house and ancestors .
One advice for the ladies ,please if you must fight ,save your strength - LADIES NEVER FIGHT OVER A MAN,FIGHT OVER A JOB,YOUR SPACE QUEUE,FOR THE LAST CHICKEN WING,BUT NEVER OVER A MAN.... it's not worth it.So many ladies have lost aimportant friendships today over a man.
So many ladies have lost good acquaintances over a man.
I am not saying a man (your man) ain't important, all am saying is the man that truly loves you and respects you ,be it your husband or boyfriend ,he won't put you through such emotional squabble. Lets learn to give ourselves sense this 2016
